The BEST Way to Protect Your Energy (It's Not What You Think!)....(Part 3..Meeting the real you Is wildly liberating ..So this Youtube came through to me today in validation of a dream I had. I had had a few dreams recently that were not making sense. So I waited for the shifts to occur and things to fall into place and the dust to settle. One dream was a pleasant sensation of being with another person, I do know this person, a female, but the dream was more about their energy than being with the physical body of the person. So the dream was just enjoying that space, I can't remember the specifics but the endless feelings of joy, safety, encouragement and timelessness were there. IN CONTRAST to the next dream a day later. The layout of the dream was inside a room, where a room mate was dominating the space with passive aggression. positioning the beds so that i could not access the windows and our beds were positioned so that the foot of her her bed was lined up with the head of my bed, with no space between, so her feet would be touching my head practically. I also know this person in the outer world. Earlier in the dream, I had seen her through the window in the passageway leading to this room. Through the window, it was dark outside and she was scurrying into an outside building, which turned out to be this room... It was all very very subterfuge like through backdoors and tunnels. So when I got to the room she was in the room. So this tells me that the room is a part of my psyche that believes a threat is from outside. The passive aggression from her was bossy and fussy, and like 'she knows best'. With the dominating presumption that Her needs and energy requirements of the room was something I was being passively aggressed to accepting...And Here's the thing...It is usual for me to handle these situations by accepting the OBVIOUS dominant energy and avoiding conflict, by seeming 'to be okay' with what is it happening in any situation, any arrangement. It is my DELAYED response, till i see how the land lies. It was uncomfortable being with this person, gritty and irksome energy that confused me...On waking later, I knew she was a person I actually know and I know she has triggered reaction to me anyway...but I was watching that her passive aggressive behaviour as DEFENCE. She was exhibiting a fearful reaction to me. So her response was ATTACKING. So as this room was "outside" so to speak, my subconscious is showing me that I AM PERCEIVEING Attacks from outside...and my behaviour is both the " a delayed but seemingly a calm response I showed to the situation, while feeling attacked by her passive aggression to me"....AND it shows that maybe my response is THAT I FEEL ATTACKED SO I AM ALWAYS IN DEFENCE MODE...AND that my psyche harbours a room that tells me this. THERE IS HOWEVER a real threat that my psyche is showing how I show up to it. Am I in constant defence in response to prolong energy invasion??? So where is this DEFENCE MODE ENERGY BRINGING ME....Well its locking me into DEFENCE MODE ENERGY.....I had figured this out yesterday and was sad that my energy is being drained in this way/ But standing my ground in this stance perhaps isn't bringing a future that I want. This youtube validated my dream by showing that defence is keeping a person stuck. And while it might be the only tool you feel you have got, its time to renegotiate Sovereign energy for what it is. Sovereignty requires neither defence, nor passive aggressive attacks to establish boundaries with OTHER energies. IT JUST IS. Michaela ).