What is in the world that we have so many narcists, or naricist exhibit behaviours, coming up for debate lately. Perhaps we are waking up to the 'loggerheads we find our selves in', with others, that leaves us confused. Maybe this exposure is about how we look at ourselves and are actioned to challenge and question our own authenticity. Peeling back the layers we find the crux of human weakness, the shadow path, that we all have a duty to see, explore, grow out of and leave behind, in order to be the co-creators of an evolving world. When we look at others we see, mirrored back, how we can be informed about ourselves. Then we get to strengthen that which needs strengthening, and those relationship dilemmas we deem no longer a need to be part of. Michaela. "@michaela " Agreed, they never say sorry, just spray confusion with no accountability, AND actually what they did is for their benefit only, and the intention is not to provide reciprocity in an adult, growing evolving relationship. THEY need to have their entitlement to you and all the resources you provide... VALIDATED by .....you not needing more than they are willing to give. Breadcrumbing. So they get annoyed when you say how sad you are about a thing happening, or not happening. Whether the thing happened or Not was for their benefit, or to keep the 'action of the relationship' locked into THEIR comfort zone only. They are avoiding stepping into their discomfort by ignoring when you need them... to step up for you. They don't to want be a reciprocal partner/friend/other... and will avoid it at all costs, making YOU the villain for needing/asking them for reciprocity. But they are AWARE of HOW things look to others, to an audience, so they shift manoeuvres around that... to keep the mask of GOOD PERSON to the audience, and come up with masked behaviours that look good...But even without an audience, they have masks for everything to enable them to remain stuck in their version of life. They are quick with excuses and then YOU are shamed for asking for reciprocity, then you become the one trying to undo the damage you have been made to believe YOU caused. Exhausted by it, don't ask anymore. Don't ask for anything, do what you need to do, yourself, it allows answers to questions about how valid their contribution is essential to your life. Just watch as the mask slips. Without them having to keep exercising the MASK muscle, it is no longer strengthened by your 'asking them for providing partnership', SO the mask gets lazy, it fails and slips, without having the need "to combat your distress" , the mask isn't being prodded or poked, they get comfortable in that and relaxed, then you see all the things that you have left them unattended, to be, in full view. Its not the words anymore, the words were from the mask, without the words, laid bare are all the actions and behaviours seen clearly. With you no longer ASKING the 'MASK; that makes up the lies to explain the actions and behaviours' ..... you just witness the actions and behaviour, or all the non action and non behaviours. Then Bingo. You see the intention all the time was to keep you locked into a one-sided arrangement that was only ever for their benefit.

@michaelamcgrath Agreed, they never say sorry, just spray confusion with no accountability, AND actually what they did is for their benefit only, and the intention is not to provide reciprocity in an adult, growing evolving relationship. THEY need to have their entitlement to you and all the resources you provide... VALIDATED by .....you not needing more than they are willing to give. Breadcrumbing. So they get annoyed when you say how sad you are about a thing happening, or not happening. Whether the thing happened or Not was for their benefit, or to keep the 'action of the relationship' locked into THEIR comfort zone only. They are avoiding stepping into their discomfort by ignoring when you need them... to step up for you. They don't want to be a reciprocal partner/friend/other... and will avoid it at all costs, making YOU the villain for needing/asking them for reciprocity. But they are AWARE of HOW things look to others, to an audience, so they shift manoeuvres around that... to keep the mask of GOOD PERSON to the audience, and come up with masked behaviours that look good...But even without an audience, they have masks for everything to enable them to remain stuck in their version of life. They are quick with excuses and then YOU are shamed for asking for reciprocity, then you become the one trying to undo the damage you have been made to believe YOU caused. Exhausted by it, don't ask anymore. Don't ask for anything, do what you need to do, yourself, it allows answers to questions about how valid their contribution is essential to your life. Just watch as the mask slips. Without them having to keep exercising the MASK muscle, it is no longer strengthened by your 'asking them for providing partnership', SO the mask gets lazy, it fails and slips, without having the need "to combat your distress" , the mask isn't being prodded or poked, they get comfortable in that and relaxed, then you see all the things that you have left them unattended, to be, in full view. Its not the words anymore, the words were from the mask, without the words, laid bare are all the actions and behaviours seen clearly. With you no longer ASKING the 'MASK; that makes up the lies to explain the actions and behaviours' ..... you just witness the actions and behaviour, or all the non action and non behaviours. Then Bingo. You see the intention all the time was to keep you locked into a one-sided arrangement that was only ever for their benefit. XXX AND XXXX XXXX When we look at our relationship with others, we see mirrored back, how we can be more informed about ourselves. And we see well enough, what we needed to see to make those changes ourselves. Michaela XXX